Saturday, March 31, 2007

Driveway bloggings

Shout out to some Republicans in the house.

I heard a radio interview with Presidential hopeful, Rudolph Giuliani, and I must say I respect him. Although he does have some left-leaning social views (not even the ones I tend to sympathize with), Giuliani is generally on the opposite side of the political spectrum as me, but I do respect him. I respect him because he’s articulate, and passionate and charismatic. I believe that his ideals were formed in the crucible of time and life, and not spouted as political rhetoric read from the conservative handbook. When he speaks, he is not a puppet, and his viewpoints don’t sound like well-rehearsed dogma meant to prop up an ailing agenda. When Giuliani says we should stay in Iraq, I believe that he believes that that is the best course of action. I don’t agree with him, but I admire his conviction. He’s a likeable guy. Say what you will about the current POTUS, but he is a lightning rod of controversy and division. I believe that a Giuliani character could draw together a divided nation. Not that I would vote for him in an election (even if I could), but RG at 1600 Pennsylvania Ave… there are worse things in the world.

In the same vain, I respect Arnold Schwartzeneggar. Again, sometimes known as a left-leaning Republican, I mostly respect him because of his work ethic and his tenacity. Arny really believes he can help people and, although I think it is a chasm of divided loyalties, I think his heart is in the right place.

Oh and, um, Karl Rove proved the axiom that white men can’t dance.

Vegas trip: part I

So my parents are in town and we planned a trip to Vegas for the weekend. The travellers include Cherie, Larry, Mom, Evert, Dara and I, and here we are. Well, Dara and I are, so far.

Dara's job hours can be strange when she's training. Often she doesn't know how long she'll be working until she clocks out. So when she was done a bit earlier than expected (by an hour or so), we figured we'd get a jump on the trip. Interestingly enough, we made excellent time, clocking in at around 3.5 hours. Thanks to Yadira's suggested route, we had no traffic issues.

Oh yeah, Yadira. She hitched a ride up with us, and we had a nice time talking about religion (what is it about Las Vegas trips and religion talks?), death, relationships and jazz music.

When we arrived in Vegas we dropped off a very tired Yadira (death talk can tire you out), and walked around the strip for a while.

We knew we would have a significant headstart on the rest of our family (who were attending their kids' annual talent show), but we were blessed (cursed?) with no traffic. The family caravan, on the other hand, were cursed (wait cursed? Yup) with bad traffic, which extended their drive a bit. A little hiccup on the journey, but this weekend is all about spending time with family and celebrating Mom's birthday. Indeed, the whole two-week trip is a celebration and I'm very glad to have Mom here.

So the specifics are this: right now the family caravan is cresting a hill somewhere between Yorba Linda and Las Vegas (you know that one hill, right?), Dara is sleeping in the back of Balcario (which is our car, you sickies), and I'm hacking someone's wifi connection.

We're staying in a housing subdivision- the very subdivision we stayed at last time we were here (in October). We snuck past the security guard who was sleeping at his station. At ease, soldier. We all make mistakes.

We don't have keys to the house we're staying in, so that's why we're in the car, staked out and waiting for the Hampton/Heskes crew to show up.

And that's my interesting night. Hopefully the neighbours won't call the cops on us.

Thursday, March 29, 2007

Why Thursdays are my favourite day

I've always loved Thursdays. I don't know why, I just like them. Perhaps it's the anticipation of the anticipation of Fridays (which never fully deliver). Perhaps it's because my favourite show is on Thursdays (NBC's "The Office.") Or perhaps it's because things like this seem to happen on Thursdays.

-Today my parents landed at LAX to begin the celebration of my Mom's ____th birthday (see last post). It was so good to see her!

-Then I received a package at work. Who doesn't love to receive a package that isn't a bomb? I love getting random gifts and packages and Dara is really good at doing little things like that. Well this particular package, which was a total surprise, was a brand new camera (see picture)! Everyone at my work gathered around as I opened this random act of love embodied in a kick-ass camera.


-Then I went out to lunch with my family and had a great time.

-Then I went back to work and finally signed some papers to make it official.

All in all, a great day. And now we're headed to the desert to spend time with the family. We'll have a great time!

Wednesday, March 28, 2007

Safe journey


Today was a good day. Got some important numbers I needed (for social reasons). Now one very important lady and her important man are on the way down to California to celebrate her birthday (I won't say which one, but it's a significant number. Sorry Mom!)

So, safe journey. Happy special number day. I'll see you tomorrow Mom!

Tuesday, March 20, 2007

Refreshing



I'm not sure if it was a re-run, but today on The Daily Show, Jon Stewart hosted former U.S. ambassador to the U.N., John Bolton. The episode was noteworthy because of the interchange of ideas the two shared. It wasn't a ground-breaking debate, but it was a cordial exchange of ideas shared between two intelligent people in a respectful manner. None of the O'Reilly talk-over-the-opposition bullshit we're used to (or Lou Dobbs, or Larry King, or whomever you'd like to insert here). Naturally, Jon and John disagreed with each other on most points, but they made concessions on certain points and were always respectful.

It doesn't really matter to me what they were talking about specifically (in this case it was the idea of appointing a politically balanced staff, rather than an all Republican or all Democratic staff, among other things). Of note was the fact that professional, dispassionate discourse is possible between two parties, even on a comedy show. They didn't talk past each other. And that gave me hope.

Monday, March 19, 2007

The weekend in review

This past weekend was a nice recovery from the prior weekend (which was also fun). It was a relaxed weekend comprised of the following:

Friday night:

-Dinner at "Waters" with Cherie, Larry and my Dara. Dara is on a new-restaurant kick (like, for the past 20 years or so), so we gave this Caribbean-style restaurant a try. Sitting out on the waterfront was nice, but the menu was a B+ at best, and the decor was suffering from an identity crisis. But the company was A+.

-Sleep

Saturday:

-Sleep in

-Continue our long-standing tradition having Chick-fil-A chicken biscuits on Saturday morning. Breakfast ends at 10:30, so we've got to get up at least by 10:00 to get these tender biscuits. Damn you, Chick-fil-A, and your tasty chicken!

-We usually have a nap shortly after the chicken. Hey, we're single, we're not parents... this is the perfect time in our lives to laze about the house doing nothing. Speaking of nothing,

-The rest of the Saturday we did a lot of nothing. We did, however, try out a new restaurant (natch) called Bastango. Much better menu than Waters, and better decor, too. Didn't have the waterfront view, and of course Cherie and Larry weren't there, but Dara and I always have a good time dining out together.

-Rented "Tenacious D: The Pick of Destiny," and "Fast Food Nation." Watched the former, which gets a B- grade, for its somewhat entertaining premise (who doesn't love watching Jack Black channel 70s glam?), and because my favourite cabaret club, Largo, was featured prominently in two scenes. It also featured prominently in Tenacious D's career: as the launching pad.

-As I watched this movie, I did 6 loads of laundry, and hated it. Too many trips, too much weight, too many instances of paying for a full load in the dryer, only to have it come out wet. Oh well, at least it's done (been putting it off since Tuesday).

-Sleep

Sunday:

Sundays we can sleep in, so we do. And we love it. Courted the idea of going to the beach. Got lazy. Did another load of laundry. Watched "Fast Food Nation." Hated, hated, hated it. I can get behind some of the movie's ideas, but not in the way they're presented. Fiction is a place for raising questions, perhaps, but not for bashing viewers/readers' heads with angry idealism. The movie could have accomplished some of its goals if I didn't feel I was being preached to. I hate didactic art. If they had done a simple documentary, a la "Inconvenient Truth," then it would have been a more honest project. But trying to shoehorn a fiction around a fact-based, documentary-style book, doesn't work.

-Went out and got Wendy's after. (Kidding).

-Got some sushi, dropped the movies back. Went to bed.

Monday (Hey this isn't the weekend!):

-Went to work; did some building inspections with fellow co-worker, Chris Larsen. Had lunch. Came back. Did some building sketches, labeled photos, researched data, went home.

-Had my first tamale. It tasted good. About 5 minutes after the fact, started throwing up. Now in bed trying not to throw up. HATE throwing up. Going to sleep now. Goodnight world.

Sunday, March 11, 2007

Syn-Party (The cuffs are from a different party)


This weekend featured the Syn-Mar post-Christmas weekend Christmas party. As real estate appraisers, we are constantly trying to meet deadlines, so you can forgive us for celebrating Christmas a little late.

The festivities began on Saturday. Steve Rethmeier, president and resident real estate guru was kind enough to get us all rooms at the Grafton Inn, a boutique hotel
on Sunset Avenue. Dara and I fed Schmaty with a day's worth of food (which she ate before we were even out there door), checked in at the Grafton and relaxed before dinner. Unfortunately we got two twin beds rather than a King-size, but we made ourselves at home, got ready and headed towards B.O.A. restaurant, which is in the Grafton lobby.

B.O.A. is known for their steaks, but apparently not the layout. At first we had to squeeze into a tiny table no bigger than a pizza box, but they moved us to better diggs, where I enjoyed a 40 day aged New York Steak, and Dara tried the (somewhat salty, but otherwise tasty) Ahi Tuna.

We then headed towards the House of Blues where the main party was to be. Dara and I arrived when Steve & Co. were enjoying their meal. They shared their drinks with us: two little bottles named Dom & Perignon, ages 12 and 8. I've never tried true champagne (only sparkling wine), and it was an experience.

From that time onward, the night progressed into a naked, drunken epic office party in the Ganesh room (see photos), and then progressed to the Parish room (again, see photos).

Tired, and stumbling towards our rooms, Dara and I were awoken at 4:00 by loud, drunken
stragglers in the hallway (not from Syn-Mar). So we had about 4 hours of sleep before we woke up and attended HoB's famous Gospel Breakfast which is exactly like it sounds: breafkast buffet followed by incredible gospel music. The food was good, if a little odd (fried chicken in the morning? Not to mention alcohol?--I guess you have to be from the south), but the singers were incredible, and were backed up by a Carter Beauford-esque drummer.

But eventually, fatigue got the better of Dara and I, and we had to feed our little Schmaty (who hadn't eaten since that same time the day before), so we left for home.

All in all, a good time.

Thursday, March 08, 2007

Green/greeting card

Tonight Dara and I had some good friends over, Sara and Gianfranco. They brought over a greeting card to congratulate me on my recent greencard acceptance(which happened to be green) and we sat down for some good times and a little of my lasagna. On the way out the door, Dara sold her very first painting (her first sale, her fourth painting), and now it will hang proudly in Gianfranco's office. That's my little Picaso!

Tuesday, March 06, 2007

This wasn't working in the comments section, so...

Truth is, I’m silent on most political issues around here because it’s no fun engaging in political debate when its 4-to-1. (Remember our gun-control talk? Loads of fun!) Besides, there’s not a lot of need for me to criticize anything liberal in these parts. Around here, Clinton (either one) is the devil, so what would be the point of my defending him/her? It would be an uphill battle, to say the least. Conversely, if Clinton did something wrong, who would hear my criticisms over the din of anti-liberal malice that is proliferated on talk radio and in the restaurants and coffee shops of Orange County? Even so, I recognize the fallibility of humanity, and I still believe it needs to be pointed out. If Gore screws up, I’ll talk about it. Indeed, during his recent scandal with the high electricity bill, I was going to blog on how hypocritical it was, and how sad it will be if people use his hypocrisy as an excuse to ignore global warming. But you beat me to it. So most of the time I wonder what’s the point.

Still, here’s a taste of my so-called silence on the issues:

-October 18, 2005: I reflected Bill Clinton's position that we shouldn’t demonize our political opponents. We were both speaking of Bush.
-October 25, 2005: I suggested it was ridiculous of the Canadian government to think that the U.S. could be responsible for Canada’s then-recent surge in gun-violence
-October 28, 2005: I criticized Rolling Stone’s myopic criticism of the political right to prove its points.
-November 5, 2005: I criticized the over-use of PC speak.
-December 17, 2005: I agreed with your post about the political left and right speaking past each other (perhaps we’re doing that now?)
-January 6, 2006: In my unread mission statement I said that, among other things, I believe the current Democrat party is the most poorly-planned, leaderless political party in memory.
-March 26, 2006: I criticized “V for Vendetta”’s transparent political agenda (though it was an essay on modern-day republicanism).
-May 9, 2006: Normally liberals defend those in the middle east; here, I condemn Iran for its atrocious human rights record.
-June 18, 2006: A fervent criticism of the Earth and Animal Liberation Front: fighting for causes I believe in, in ways I don’t believe in.
-August 17, 2006: “Let he who is without sin…” I was talking about blame-shifting, and pointedly stated that the left is equally guilty at blame-shifting.

And that’s in the public forum. Meanwhile, privately, I have criticized Michael Moore’s attack on Charlton Heston in his “Bowling for Columbine” movie, and condemned President Carter for his recent stance on middle east issues, among many other instances.

But I listen for a reaction and all I hear is silence, when Rush Limbaugh spouts insensitive comments about Michael J., nil on Robertson’s call to assassinate the leader of a sovereign nation (this is a supposed evangelist??? Conversion through death, Pat?) Truth is, I don’t hear a lot of criticism from within the parties. Mostly I get, “you think that’s bad? Check out the comments of these guys!” Hence your links.

As for denouncing specific points, I hadn’t heard about Maher’s comment about Cheney, but you should know that I think it’s wrong to wish death on someone else. I wouldn’t denounce the Bush/Hitler comparisons because there are worse things in the world than comparing the president to Hitler. Wishing death on him, that’s evil. Making comparisons about Bush and Hilter, that’s just inaccurate. For starters, Hitler was a teetotaler, and was very intelligent (at least until the late stages of his military campaign). But there are some reasonable comparisons that one can make, namely their mutual belief in the unassailable sovereignty of the home state, their tendency to see the world in white-and-black (instead of grey), their use of a national tragedy to justify the reduction of civil liberties and consolidate power, their invasion of a sovereign nation with little or no pretext. Is Gitmo an Aushwitz? Not even close. But it’s still a prison where humans can exist indefinitely without a fair trial, and where their minds are ‘broken’ using CIA brain-washing techniques.

Maybe the problem isn’t the silence on both ends; maybe the problem is that the right and left are so far disconnected that what you think is an outrageous statement, I might find innocuous, and vice versa.

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Consequently, some of those quotations were pretty heinous, especially considering their credible sources. Then again, there are the Farrakhan-type sources which hold no credibility (at least in my mind). I’ll say it again, to wish death on someone is to betray your ideology (that of equal human rights for everyone, even political bastards).

Monday, March 05, 2007

This picture makes my blog look ugly

Most people are aware of Ann Coulter’s now famous comments about democratic senator John Edwards. In case you’re not most people, she called him a faggot. "I was going to have a few comments on the other Democratic presidential candidate John Edwards, but it turns out you have to go into rehab if the you use the word faggot -- so kind of an impasse, can't really talk about Edwards," Coulter said.

Coulter is known for her psychotic posture on everything from patriotism to terrorism to race. Here are a few Coulter gems:


"My only regret with Timothy McVeigh is he did not go to the New York Times Building."

“Airports scrupulously apply the same laughably ineffective airport harassment to Suzy Chapstick as to Muslim hijackers. It is preposterous to assume every passenger is a potential crazed homicidal maniac. We know who the homicidal maniacs are. They are the ones cheering and dancing right now. We should invade their countries, kill their leaders and convert them to Christianity. We weren't punctilious about locating and punishing only Hitler and his top officers. We carpet-bombed German cities; we killed civilians. That's war. And this is war”


(ed-- uh, we didn’t locate or punish Hitler. He killed himself. Just thought you should know, Ann). Isn’t she a peach? (Almost rhymes with “psychotic bitch.” Almost).

Anyway, my stink here isn’t actually with Ann, because there’s no helping her. She’s about as likely to convert to normal as Tom Cruise. And that’s unlikely.

But this level of infectious venom should disgust everyone as much as it disgusts me (at the very least, it should make everyone uncomfortable). And where are the Republicans condemning these divisive comments? Well, Dennis Prager was on Larry King tonight talking about all the horrible things that liberals say, rather than denouncing Ann and her comments. And that’s the way with all of us. When Michael Moore becomes overzealous in his arguments and starts drifting into fabricated documentary, liberals should be the first to jump on any inaccuracies (and there are many). Likewise, it behooves the GOP to remove their support for nuts like Limbaugh, Pat Robertson or Coulter, in moments when their comments stray into psycho-land (and there are many).